So when you visit a hypothetical forum and find that it freely uses the fword and other profanities for the sole "intent" of being antagonistic, or like Pulp Fiction, just an expletive infixation, you would have no problem joining that forum? In other words, F-words in that form are ok to you?Foil wrote: Hm, interesting question.
Profanity like the "f-word" is certainly antagonistic in many cases. It's definitely something my wife and I don't use (although I admit I have, in times when I've let my temper get the better of me). When we have kids, we believe it's important to establish an example for them about appropriate language; not a bunch of "you can't say X" rules, but to teach them the importantance of how you converse with people, even those you disagree with.
Back to the topic, although I would certainly be cautious about my young kids watching films with profanity, I don't see the "f-word" by itself as an attack on my belief system. (I'm making a guess that you're hinting at a contrast or similarity in my rationale, but feel free to correct me). It is true that certain phrases laced with "God (something)" could possibly be meant as a religious attack, but that's not normally the case, at least in popular American culture.
Let me see if I can put it this way:
*The major factor for me when evaluating things like music, books, and films is the intent, rather than the words or genre or format being used.*
There have been films I've seen with various levels of profanity, but the value (or non-value) of the film has much more to do with the intent, the reason the language is there. So although they both use some of the same language, a film like Crash (where the language is there as part of some realistic scenes about racial tensions) has much more value to me than a film like Pulp Fiction. The same applies for violence, The Passion of the Christ vs. Bloodsport, etc. In other words, I will certainly be cautious about what my very young kids see, but the most overriding factor is the intent.
That's the reason I see The Golden Compass as very different from Lord of the Rings or Harry Potter. The latter two were made to be enjoyable films, the former was written with the intent to attack my faith.
Since the church considers profanity an attack on Christian values, I would like to know what the difference would be between that hypothetical forum and the movie as it pertains to the variable examples you wish to set.
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