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the ghost of Tom Joad

Post by roid »

in the spirit of Koolbear's sappy storys :)



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I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am one of the lucky ones, I guess. I survived the attack that left me in a coma for three weeks, and in another year I will probably be able to walk again.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person whose genitals were deemed ambiguous when I was born. The gender assigned to me has never felt right, but I wonder if the parts of me they cut away would have.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.

I am the man who died when the paramedics stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transgendered.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didn’t have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.
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Now, that's a loaded post. Are you sure it shouldn't be in E&C? I'll agree that homophobia is a bad thing, but I don't think that means that everyone should say it's ok to be homosexual. Doesn't this world realize that one can disagree without descriminating?
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snoopy wrote: Doesn't this world realize that one can disagree without descriminating?
Unfortunately most do not.
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righto
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Hattrick wrote:
snoopy wrote: Doesn't this world realize that one can disagree without descriminating?
Unfortunately most do not.
Any ideas on how to fix that?
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Shadowfury333 wrote:
Hattrick wrote:
snoopy wrote: Doesn't this world realize that one can disagree without descriminating?
Unfortunately most do not.
Any ideas on how to fix that?
Be one of the reasonable ones yourself... and raise your kids that way :)
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Paul wrote: Be one of the reasonable ones yourself... and raise your kids that way :)
Well put Paul, well put indeed.
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