TIGERassault wrote:
Why do you feel that the person who starts off poor should have to work much harder than the person who starts off rich to reach the same position, keeping in mind that they start off poor or rich because they were artificially held down low or up high right at the beginning?
I believe this, so I'll answer you. The answer is that something more important than fairness is at stake: character.
Everyone has to overcome hard challenges to be successful, no matter how well or badly off they are. Everyone has midterms they fail, everyone gets stuck in traffic on a day they can't miss work, everyone experiences a market downswing at
just the right time to collapse their business. Guess what?
That's life. Learn to deal with it, because everyone needs to, because there's no other way to succeed. If we make a completely fair system that teaches people to react to disadvantage by throwing up their hands and saying, "it's not my fault I failed," then we're all going to very slowly, but very fairly, get poor together. Because we're all going to fairly fail together.
On the other hand, if we build a society where people are taught to meet challenges, we'll succeed. If people respond to difficulties by gritting their teeth and saying "Those who say it can't be done had best git out of the way of those doin' it!"--then we'll do impossible things. You'd be amazed the sorts of insurmountable challenges that can be overcome with a bit of hard work and perseverence. Can't live on minimum wage?
Get a second job. Can't advance?
Go to community college at night. Single mother?
Organize a neighborhood childcare co-op. I'm not saying it's not hard. It's hard. But there are ways. Of course, you'll fail if you've grown up learning to sit on your hands and complain and, well, fail. That's entirely the point: to teach people to not do that.
A disadvantage is a challenge, that's all. Seeking help to overcome it is not a bad thing. Seeking help is part of overcoming challenges. But it is much, much more important that people be expected to succeed by their own efforts than that everyone be given a fair shot while waiting for someone else to deal with whatever problems they have.
TIGERassault wrote:Kilarin wrote:
It's better to admit that some people start in the front, and some people start in the back. But life is NOT a 100 yard dash. It's a marathon. And there is plenty of time for the folks in the back to catch up, as well as time for those in the front to fall behind. Just let them run and ensure that no one trips anyone else.
Firstly, for a LOT of people, there's next to nil chance of them catching up, no matter how hard they try.
This is a myth. It's simply not true.
Ford Prefect wrote:The working poor are those guys that fixed your roof when you took the lowest bid. Picked up outside of Home Depot and paid in cash by the contractor that gave you the bid. They haul your goods in trucks and stock the shelves of the stores you buy in at night as you sleep.
These are not a "they", but an "us". I,
personally, have done hard work outdoors at minimum wage. I,
personally, have stocked shelves, put clothes on hangers. Lothar has worked weird hours. Fellow grad student put herself through grad school, with no support, with 7 years of truck driving. These jobs are work, but they are not the endless torture some make them out to be. And guess what? They do get you to where you can improve.
You
can drive a truck for 7 years and make enough to go to grad school. You
can immigrate to America with 12 dollars to your name, work three minimum-wage jobs to support a family, and 20 years later be a multi-millionare with your own business (person I know). You
can have barely a high school graduation certificate, find a job for $9/hour and--if you live cheap--make enough to support a wife and daughter and, with a little help, go to community college. You
can be living on social security/disability from the government, have a wife and family to care for, and still go to school. There are organizations that help with that sort of thing. I know a guy who did it.
Seriously. It's really just not that bad out there. Work hard, live cheap, be smart--I can't think of a single background you couldn't overcome. And if you do happen to be the increasingly rare genius-held-back-by-circumstances, just make a little noise. There are lots of justice-loving people who want to help.
Poverty, inasmuch as it exists anymore (and by historical standards, it really doesn't in the US), is largely
self-inflicted. That doesn't mean we shouldn't show compassion to "them", but it does mean is folly to build a system on the assumption that all the poor need is a little material help.
Success is not winning the lottery. Success is a habit.