tunnelcat wrote:... especially if the perpetrator lost the upper hand during the attack and the chance presented itself right then and there?
Let's make sure not to confuse self-defense with vengeance. It's entirely a matter of what's in your heart. Personally I try not to cultivate a vengeful attitude, so that if and when things do get rough, it won't be an issue. I can drop someone who's messing with one of my younger brothers or sisters (or a complete stranger, for that matter) without being vengeful. The end result is that if it's not vengeance that's driving your actions you can do what's necessary and no more.
tunnelcat wrote:Parents have an innate desire to protect their children, at all costs, dammed the consequences.
And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, in my book. I'm a fan of "old fashioned", and when it comes to kids I don't think you should feel the need to have a rule book in front of you when it comes to how you can protect them. You do it how you need to do it. But then again there's a line you can cross and you'll be going for vengeance.
I feel bad making it all sound so complicated. It's really a lot more complicated to write out than to know. Just some basic moral principles applied to potentially complex situations.
To recap on the main topic, my only focus in all of this is prevention, and it's a very complex thing. That's why I am for the death penalty. The death penalty is a very unpleasant and extreme thing. I feel like the justice system in this country is being dumbed down for no reason other than personal distaste. A lack of stomach for things that are unfortunately necessary, and an increasing dearth of wisdom to realize why they are necessary. It's people who are not living in the real world effecting the lives of those of us who are, and for the worse.