tunnelcat wrote:First of all, I agree that she was being disrespectful to the general when she cut him off to get her point across, but you
BOYS need to get a little female perspective here. The term
ma'am is defined as
madam. The general should have addressed her as 'Madam Senator' if he'd wanted to use a gender term in addressing her. But check out the third definition here:
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/madam
Nice of him to call her a 'whore'!
Women of Boxer's generation, including me, grew up when feminists were fighting for equal rights, INCLUDING the right to be addressed as equals, not as lesser subjects or minions to be talked down to. The term ma'am was always meant as a polite but subjugating title to address women back before the 1960's. When I heard the exchange, my immediate gut reaction was anger and agreement, another pig, self-righteous male with no respect for a women in authority. He was essentially saying to her, although subliminally; my balls are bigger than your's biiiaaatch! Unfortunately, she corrected him with a quick reaction and not more reasoned thinking on her part and she just came off catty. Don't males get mad when called effeminate terms? She would have done better to correct him in private. But it was more fun to see her castrate him in public, a little schedenfreud on my part!
OMG you cannot possibly be serious about this comment. you really are a Nutjob TC. I see how you've selectively chosen the one derogatory use of the word Madam, contrary to what most feminists want to believe. Men that use that term no not think of women as whore's. and its a sad statement for any woman that thinks they do.
FYI in the Military it is a sign of respect AND REQUIRED to call a superior Sir or Ma'am, and you only dress your Inferiors by their title. Typical Femi-Nazi BS
Websters wrote:ma'am
/mæm, mɑm; unstressed məm/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [mam, mahm; unstressed muhm] Show IPA
–noun
1. madam (def. 1).
2. (in Britain) a term used in addressing the queen or a royal princess.
Related Words for : ma'am
dame, gentlewoman, lady, madam
now here is the other definition of the word Madam
Websters wrote:mad⋅am
/ˈmædəm/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [mad-uhm] Show IPA
–noun, plural mes⋅dames /meɪˈdæm, -ˈdɑm/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [mey-dam, -dahm] Show IPA for 1; mad⋅ams for 2, 3.
1. (often initial capital letter) a polite term of address to a woman, originally used only to a woman of rank or authority: Madam President; May I help you, madam?
and Thirdly I take offense at your use of the term "BOYS" it is HIGHLY disrespectful if you don't like to be called a Whore then no not call grown Men Boys. apparently there is one distinct difference between you and the General. he meant no disrespect with the term Ma'am. you on the other-hand with your bolding of the word Boys, seems you were intending to offend
Websters wrote: boys - 2 dictionary results
boy
/bɔɪ/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [boi] Show IPA Disparaging and Offensive. a man considered by the speaker to be inferior in race, nationality, or occupational status.
EDIT: besides the fact that Whore accurately describes Boxer, she is a politician after all, they are all whore's the Men and Women alike