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What's the point of adding friends on facebook?

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So I've been on facebook for a while and since yesterday I've been posting stuff in a group, managed by a school club I joined.
1. I've been getting and sending private messages.
2. Posting comments on walls.

So far, I like it. It's just a big webforum. Is there any point in adding people as friends? It's already doing everything I want it to.
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Re: What's the point of adding friends on facebook?

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It's fundamentally a permissions mechanism. Many privacy settings (like who can post on your wall, or whose posts/photos/notes you can see, etc.) are 'friend-only'.

I find it pretty useful.

Edit: You'll find that the way people handle friend-requests varies. Some people friend anyone and everyone, others (like me) will turn down friend-requests from people they don't know or barely know.
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Ok, so I guess I might use the add friends feature, but only if there's info we'll need to be sharing for a period of time.
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Re: What's the point of adding friends on facebook?

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Adding friends is a way top re-connect with old friends that may have left your school or whatever. I only add people that I was good friends with in HS or afterwards and not people I never talked to.
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Re: What's the point of adding friends on facebook?

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I have my facebook account locked down as tightly as it will go - if you're not my friend or I'm not in your group, I'm really hard to even find.

I also turn down friend requests of people whom I don't know.
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Re: What's the point of adding friends on facebook?

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When you say you like something on a wall, that means you subscribe to that thread?
I had to Like my club before being able to post on their page. So to Like something means to subscribe, yes?
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Re: What's the point of adding friends on facebook?

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Everything on FB forces you to either join, allow them to post on your wall or like it to be able to use the app/group. It's all a gimmick so they can get access to your personal info. You can't search for me on FB cause I'm locked down.
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Re: What's the point of adding friends on facebook?

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You can't search for me on facebook because I don't have an account there at all.
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Krom wrote:You can't search for me on facebook because I don't have an account there at all.
I actually made one for the reason that it could keep someone from making a fake account with my picture and name. Facebook seems to becoming more like an online ID as time progresses. I figured I'd at least have something that clearly identifies me, so it's impossible for a faker to have a more authentic looking facebook profile than me. Yes, I realize how silly that all sounds, but it costs nothing to set one up. Plus, temporarily, I have a reason to use it because of a school club. It's searchable and I expect employers to check up on it in the future. If someone had made a fake version of my profile before I did, like a competitive coworker, they could make a profile that could get me fired. I'm not saying this is a common problem. It's just something worth protecting yourself against.
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Re: What's the point of adding friends on facebook?

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Isaac wrote:I actually made one for the reason that it could keep someone from making a fake account with my picture and name.
From the looks of it anyone could still create a duplicate account with your name on it.
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Except you'd be comparing a new account with an old account that has history going back for a long period of time. There's more reasoning written after the first line of that post you've quoted.
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I'm with Krom on this.

It's not entirely secure, no matter what they say. Even still. FB is little more than a way to peddle "soft gaming" these days. I had an account a while back until I was getting so inundated with game join requests from "friends" that I got really tired of deleting a ton of spam. Zinga is making a killing off of FB.
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Krom wrote:You can't search for me on facebook because I don't have an account there at all.
How about Google+. Google is every ones friend. :P
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Actually, I don't mind playing with new toys that google comes out with.
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Just don't get caught using a made up name. Google nuked a bunch of G+ accounts because people didn't use their real name.
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Krom wrote:You can't search for me on facebook because I don't have an account there at all.
Amen Brother. A lot of tech people refuse to join any social network.
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Krom wrote:You can't search for me on facebook because I don't have an account there at all.
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I keep my friends list pretty limited. Some of those friends don't, however.
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Count me in with the "not on facebook" crowd. I just never saw the point of crap like that and myspace. If theres someone I want to talk to, I can already call, email, or instant message them. Why should I bother posting the minute of life online for anyone to see? If someones interested, they can have a conversation with me.
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Avder wrote:Count me in with the "not on facebook" crowd. I just never saw the point of crap like that and myspace. If theres someone I want to talk to, I can already call, email, or instant message them. Why should I bother posting the minute of life online for anyone to see? If someones interested, they can have a conversation with me.
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