To Slick. after doing some research on the matter along with having a good discussion with my wife about to subject (smart woman she is)
I found this.
If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; 29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his day
after some searching this is what I come up with. it's not a perfect answer and I'm sure vision will not like it DON'T CARE. I could have PM'd this but I'm not afraid of the Truth
The problem comes from the interpretation of the Hebrew expression “Lay hold on her and lie with her”.
‘Taphas’ is the Hebrew word for “Lay hold on her”, and it can mean “to catch, handle, lay hold, take hold of, seize, wield…”. It doesn’t necessitate a
wrongful handling, or laying hold of.
‘Shakab’ is the Hebrew word meaning “to Lie down”. It is used of consensual, marital sexual relations in Leviticus,
What we have here is the law concerning seduction, not rape. In no way is rape condoned in any part of the Bible, a simple reading of the larger context of Deuteronomy 22:25-29 easily confirms this.
25 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her, and lie with her: then the man only that lay with her shall die.But unto the damsel thou shalt do nothing; there is in the damsel no sin worthy of death: for as when a man riseth against his neighbour, and slayeth him, even so is this matter:For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.(The Law concerning Rape)
28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.(The Law concerning seduction)
Notice that verse 25 gives the Law regarding rape,but uses an entirely different word than that in verses 28-29. The word used in vs 25 is chazaq- “to force”.
In the other stories of the Bible that recount rape, none of them use the expression “taphas Shekahb” as in the Deuternomy 22:28-29 passage.
The Bible does not condone Rape. it is contradictory to the very nature and essence of it's teachings. I hope this clarifies what I believe on this subject. people like Vision will only see what they want to see in the matter. never taking the time or effort to look deeper. only wishing to see whats on the surface. and to look for a chance to condemn