I'd say do the split.Foil wrote:I'm considering splitting this into a separate thread:
Both are a legitimate problem, but to claim that racism against blacks is now "much much smaller" than racism against whites is ludicrous.Will Robinson wrote:The actual number of instances where a white person acts out in racial bigotry is much much smaller than he number of times black people are taught that white people hate them.
[Edit: Personally, I find the oft-repeated lines about "race-baiting" to be just as divisive as what they object to.]
I've given the whole race thing a lot of thought lately. I can't say that I have very many answers, but I'll lend my thoughts:
I think that the US has a culture problem, not a race problem at this point. I think that my #1 problem with the way things are is that there's this unwritten (or maybe written) expectation that cultural lines will be drawn along racial lines.
I'll start with some places in the south. I went to college in east Texas. I don't know if this is true... but there was rumored to be a little town down the way that would run out any black person that dared to stop there. Maybe it was a rumor... but I saw and heard enough around there to know that for some people and some circles, it wasn't too far from the truth. There are pockets of culture that are still extremely bigoted toward anyone who isn't white, and it's an evil thing. It hurts me that my daughter is going to be hated and judged by people simply based on the way that she looks.
Now, the urban culture. My daughter doesn't look like me. She isn't going to grow up to talk and act like a lot of people that look like her. There are aspects of the urban culture that I don't particularly want her to pick up - such as the marginalization of women and the importance that appearance receives. I also hurts me that my daughter is going to be hated and judged by people that look like her simply based on the way that she speaks and carries herself.
I think that the primary problem is with groups and places that expect individuals to fit certain cultural bins based on some outward characteristic of theirs. I think that there are places of diversity where there can be acceptance of individual people's cultures and outward presentation without them having to be expected to fit in some per-defined bin. I think that I live in a place that's pretty good about this - the vast majority of the comments that I've received about my colorful family have been good ones - and I'm very thankful for that.
Getting back to M and Z and this whole race issue: I think a lot of this comes from misunderstandings between cultures that persist. If I could ask for one thing, I'd ask for people to be required to get a cultural education... about each other's cultures. From my perspective, we're stuck in this mire where we have two cultures with a long history of adversity living alongside each other - and the people that dare to reach across the lines, from either side, are ousted by their own. I get the whole concept of treasuring our culture but some days I think maybe we'd be better off if we could all just meet in the middle and let our cultures get diluted into each other.