Jeff250 wrote:Will, don't be intentionally obtuse.
Suppose you were accidentally cc'd an email where a manager makes a comment about having hired a woman for her appearances. If you accused him of hiring her for her appearances, then that wouldn't be sexism, because after all, he did, so how could it be, right?
Now suppose after your accusation it comes to light that someone actually faked that email in order to get the manager in trouble. So now it turns out that your accusation was wrong. But that doesn't somehow retroactively go back in time and make your accusation sexist, does it? Obviously not, because whether you ended up being right or wrong, the accusation was made in good faith, not out of resentment for or to insult women, which is and always has been the determining factor.
I wasn't trying to be dense, your comments were looking like they conflicted. And that explanation is one convoluted way to indirectly-sort-of-correct it.
Be that as it may however, I think I'm now following you to say that someone making a statement that a woman was hired/promoted for her looks instead of the merit requisite for the position is only sexist if the motive was out of resentment or as an insult to women.
One problem jumps out there...resentment and accurate are not mutually exclusive.
Example of something that happens often:
A female employee gets promoted by a male supervisor because he has the hots for her and the female's male co-worker, who was more qualified and passed over for the same job, is resentful but due to your definition of sexism his resentment disqualifies him from suggesting the promotion was unjust 'because his accusation would be
sexist'?!?
I think resentment isn't going to work there...
Contrary to what you said earlier, accuracy matters a great deal. In fact it makes the sexist charge inappropriate completely.
And the other motive you cited, of
'purposefully insulting to women'? That's it? That is sexist?
Equally problematic, far too broad. You have expanded the proper definition of 'sexism' to a ridiculous point.
Are women really that fragile in your mind that you need to construct this kind of extreme-protection for them? That sounds kind of sexist of you.
You said the definition of sexism is determined by a comment:
"out of resentment for or to insult women, which is and always has been the determining factor".
You are wrong. That has not always been the determining factor. That is what you have reduced the criteria to...
The definition is:
"prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.".
The basis of sex is kind of important thus the name
sexism. It doesn't mean anything insulting 'to women' and it doesn't mean anything uttered 'with resentment'.
Sexism certainly will be insulting to most of them but it isn't the only thing that is insulting. Sexism is tied to the gender by definition.
When you start tweaking the proper definition of sexism you have to be careful. Or, you should if you are sincerely trying to be just, and aren't simply trying to create a weapon to haphazardly wield in a political arena that is...