WOOT! Finally got a trial date ...

Iceman · Post by **Iceman** » Fri Jul 09, 2004 9:56 am

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I just learned that our divorce trial date is now set in stone ... August 9.

Too bad ... her 2nd lawyer just resigned and she has no representation at all. She refuses to go see the shrink that the judge ordered her to see, she rarely shows up to see her children, she is spiraling down hard. I saw her the other day and my gawd ... she looks horrible.

I have some prep work to do ... a few days with my lawyer and a few days with the shrink. I am having the shrink do a FULL psychological evaluation of myself and the children. She will testify in court as to my parenting skills and (hopefully lack of) personality disorders as well as the emotional state of my children.

Anyhow, I expect good results for my children and I and I can't wait to get this all over with.

HaAGen DaZS · Post by **HaAGen DaZS** » Fri Jul 09, 2004 10:17 am

Good to know your coming out on top, ice! G'luck ! Hope she gets whats coming to her!

And you, as well, of course!!

MD-2389 · Post by **MD-2389** » Fri Jul 09, 2004 10:27 am

Best of luck to ya man.

snoopy · Post by **snoopy** » Fri Jul 09, 2004 3:01 pm

Will the fact that she doesn't have representation delay it more?

Mobius · Post by **Mobius** » Fri Jul 09, 2004 3:46 pm

Fantastic Iceman - that's great news man. I don't mean great that your wife is spiralling out of control - I mean great that you seem to well on the way to some peace!

Iceman · Post by **Iceman** » Fri Jul 09, 2004 10:37 pm

Thx ... I dont particulary find joy in the fact that she is going down. In fact I grieve for her.

The + is that it appears that my children and I will be able to start a new, good life together.

I dunno if it will delay it all or not ... I suppose the court will appoint someone for her since she will have a hard time finding representation.

Wang_Lo · Post by **Wang_Lo** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 12:16 am

good luck iceman, divorces are teh nasty

roid · Post by **roid** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 2:43 am

outof all teh possible outcomes, this is the best.

you win iceman

woodchip · Post by **woodchip** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 6:24 am

it's taken a long time, hasn't it. Glad to hear it is about over.

Pun · Post by **Pun** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 7:28 am

The fat lady hasn't sung yet. Good luck, bro.

Jagger · Post by **Jagger** » Mon Jul 12, 2004 11:47 pm

You seem to have maintained a pretty positive attitude, Ice. This issue's been going on for some time. I've thought about you and your plight often. Hope everything turns out alright!

Plebeian · Post by **Plebeian** » Tue Jul 13, 2004 8:16 am

Congrats, Ice. Sounds like it's all going well.

I just hope that she gets the help it sounds like she needs once she loses (since it does sound like that's where it's heading). Might be the kick she needs to realize it. At least we can hope.

Darktalyn1 · Post by **Darktalyn1** » Tue Jul 13, 2004 10:10 am

Good luck Iceman. How old are your children btw?

Iceman · Post by **Iceman** » Tue Jul 13, 2004 11:25 am

My daughters are 8 and 10 years old. Thx for the support folks ...

Fusion pimp · Post by **Fusion pimp** » Tue Jul 13, 2004 1:14 pm

Ice,
you're a good man for still being concerned for her condition after all you've been through *agianst* her.

pipsqueak10 · Post by **pipsqueak10** » Tue Jul 13, 2004 7:14 pm

EXCELLENTE! Glad to hear that things are looking up for you.

Defender · Post by **Defender** » Tue Jul 13, 2004 8:31 pm

Glad to hear everythings working out for the best.
GL!

Will Robinson · Post by **Will Robinson** » Tue Jul 13, 2004 8:43 pm

Congratulations Bro! I hope all four of you come out of this for the better, sounds like you and the little ones will for sure.