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I'm not sure I can find the words to describe this.
It was bound to happen...
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Wow... the scary thing is, this stuff happens all the time. I have a friend who worked for the Department of Human Services, and has witnessed all kinds of horrific abuse situations. From what he tells me, they often don't have the resources to follow up on abuse reports; and even when it's clear that a child needs to be out of a particular situation, the red tape is so overwhelming they can't do much....
Two younger children have been returned to the parents, despite the fact that "the court expresses the gravest of doubts as to the likelihood that [the stepfather] will be able to control his anger"...
They may profess some kind of beliefs in common with Christianity, but if you're referring to the original intended definition of Christian ("Christ-like" or "of Christ"), you're right.Iceman wrote:I got news for ya ... This guy (and his wife) are not Christians.
(Note: Please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying "anyone who sins cannot be a Christian" or "people who act in such-and-such a way cannot be Christians"; that's the furthest thing from the truth. I'm just making a comparision of this kind of abuse to the ideals of a well-lived Christian life.)
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It should be dealt with by "the church", meaning, the community of believers he associates with. Or, if they collectively refuse, the whole group should be dealt with by the larger community -- by other congregations that associate with his.Ferno wrote:it should be dealt with by the church, since he subscribes to that faith.
There is no overarching "church" heirarchy that could send him an order from above. The church is a community full of peers, not a business full of bosses. So, it's up to those who are in fellowship with him -- those who know him -- to deal with his behavior. If they don't, then they as a community have failed, and it's then up to the wider community to help.
If he doesn't respond, then he should be treated as a non-Christian. At that point, it becomes a community / law-enforcement matter -- which still includes the church in his community, of course, but is larger than that.
Of course, if he's in a church that does have a heirarchy, like the Catholic church, none of what I said applies. And if he's not a part of any church, then it's up to individuals in his community (Christian or not) to deal with it.