How hard could it possibly be?
The ICQ privacy setting window looks like this. This is reached by clicking on the + sign next to ICQ under Chatting Services and then clicking on Privacy.
* 1) The first option is a Drop Down box saying \"Apply Settings to:\". When connected to the Internet, this box will have your nickname with which you are now connected to that IM service, which then has to be selected here. The setting that you make are active and set for that specific nick (which you specified in the box) If you have two nicks, make sure you repeat the procedure to get the setting you desire on both nicks.
* 2) The \"Who can view my status\" part, is the one which actually allows you to \"show\" whether you online or if you want to hide your status. The viewers on your \"Visible List\" CAN see and contact you when you are online and the users on your \"Invisible List\" CANNOT see your status AT ANY POINT of time. The add name and remove buttons are used to add and remove names from the lists respectively.
* 3) The Miscellaneous settings can be used to set \"stricter\" restrictions on who can contact you. The \"Accept messages only from users on my contact list\" option will PREVENT ALL other users of ICQ from contacting you, and those on your contact list can contact you.
* 4) It is advisable to set the \"Do not accept WWPager\" and \"Do not accept EmailExpress\" options to ON, as MOST of these messages ARE junk and of no actual use.
* 5) IP security SHOULD be set to \"Never Display my IP address\" for MAXIMUM security.
TRILLIAN: PREFERENCES -> CHATTING SERVICES -> ICQ -> IGNORE LIST
This is where the actual \"Ignoring\" takes place. Any User once added to this list is completely Ignored and all attempt they make to contact you/send messages WILL NOT BE seen by you and will be blocked. Clicking the ADD button, Displays a box to enter the UIN of the user you want to ignore. After entering the UIN and clicking on OK, the user is completely ignored.
TRILLIAN: PREFERENCES -> CHATTING SERVICES -> ICQ -> MISC
Again as the name implies, this is the place to set a few miscellaneous things. The first two boxes i.e.; General and Direct Connection should be left alone. There is an additional Trillian capability called \"SecureIM\". This is basically very very similar to DCC on IRC or Direct IM on AIM, the ONLY two differences being this SecureIM is secured through 128 bit encryption (Trillian uses Blowfish encryption with a Diffie-Hellman Key Exchange) which means a normal hacker will not be able to see what the chat is about. The second difference is that SecureIM IS ONLY ALLOWED between TWO TRILLIAN USERS ! i.e.; If a friend of yoursuses ICQ not ICQ through Trillian, the two of you CANNOT have a \"SecureIM\".