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WOOT! Finally got a trial date ...

Posted: Fri Jul 09, 2004 9:56 am
by Iceman
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I just learned that our divorce trial date is now set in stone ... August 9.

Too bad ... her 2nd lawyer just resigned and she has no representation at all. She refuses to go see the shrink that the judge ordered her to see, she rarely shows up to see her children, she is spiraling down hard. I saw her the other day and my gawd ... she looks horrible.

I have some prep work to do ... a few days with my lawyer and a few days with the shrink. I am having the shrink do a FULL psychological evaluation of myself and the children. She will testify in court as to my parenting skills and (hopefully lack of) personality disorders as well as the emotional state of my children.

Anyhow, I expect good results for my children and I and I can't wait to get this all over with.

Posted: Fri Jul 09, 2004 10:17 am
by HaAGen DaZS
Good to know your coming out on top, ice! G'luck ! Hope she gets whats coming to her! :) And you, as well, of course!!

Posted: Fri Jul 09, 2004 10:27 am
by MD-2389
Best of luck to ya man.

Posted: Fri Jul 09, 2004 3:01 pm
by snoopy
Will the fact that she doesn't have representation delay it more?

Posted: Fri Jul 09, 2004 3:46 pm
by Mobius
Fantastic Iceman - that's great news man. I don't mean great that your wife is spiralling out of control - I mean great that you seem to well on the way to some peace!

Posted: Fri Jul 09, 2004 10:37 pm
by Iceman
Thx ... I dont particulary find joy in the fact that she is going down. In fact I grieve for her.

The + is that it appears that my children and I will be able to start a new, good life together.

I dunno if it will delay it all or not ... I suppose the court will appoint someone for her since she will have a hard time finding representation.

Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2004 12:16 am
by Wang_Lo
good luck iceman, divorces are teh nasty

Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2004 2:43 am
by roid
outof all teh possible outcomes, this is the best.

you win iceman :)

Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2004 6:24 am
by woodchip
it's taken a long time, hasn't it. Glad to hear it is about over.

Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2004 7:28 am
by Pun
The fat lady hasn't sung yet. Good luck, bro.

Posted: Mon Jul 12, 2004 11:47 pm
by Jagger
You seem to have maintained a pretty positive attitude, Ice. This issue's been going on for some time. I've thought about you and your plight often. Hope everything turns out alright!

Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2004 8:16 am
by Plebeian
Congrats, Ice. Sounds like it's all going well. :)

I just hope that she gets the help it sounds like she needs once she loses (since it does sound like that's where it's heading). Might be the kick she needs to realize it. At least we can hope. :)

Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2004 10:10 am
by Darktalyn1
Good luck Iceman. How old are your children btw?

Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2004 11:25 am
by Iceman
My daughters are 8 and 10 years old. Thx for the support folks ...

Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2004 1:14 pm
by Fusion pimp
Ice,
you're a good man for still being concerned for her condition after all you've been through *agianst* her.

Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2004 7:14 pm
by pipsqueak10
EXCELLENTE! Glad to hear that things are looking up for you.

Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2004 8:31 pm
by Defender
Glad to hear everythings working out for the best.
GL! :)

Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2004 8:43 pm
by Will Robinson
Congratulations Bro! I hope all four of you come out of this for the better, sounds like you and the little ones will for sure.